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Redefining Relationships with an intention of acceptance, understanding, care, compassion and love.

Writer's picture: Poonam Bains.Poonam Bains.

Updated: May 24, 2020

Let your heartbeat..... not SKIP a beat

Its beyond love and passion…..It’s about defining clarity, communication, compassion, support, understanding, let go, acceptance, patience, flights, make ups, forgiveness and feelings with one another.


Some people are simply blessed to maintain their relations with everyone in a flawless, balanced and healthy state, while others struggle with understanding and maintaining a healthy relationship with anyone. Either they always complain about other people or keep doing extra efforts to maintain them and stress themselves. While some just prefer to stay aloof out of the social circle which is also not a balanced state.


Relationship is not about a bond between a man and a woman, it is an art of understanding an individual, who can be a son, daughter, mother, father, brother, sister, in-laws, friends, colleague, business partner or anyone in that matter. It’s a give and take understanding to make it a win-win situation in any relationship which involves two individuals to work equally to make it successful with a team effort. No relation can succeed with a single person there has to be two individuals involved to make it work at its best. I choose to create my own opinion with my personal experience in any relation about a person without judging anyone by the cover but spending extra time to really know the person. No person is right or wrong it’s their experiences in life that make them a certain way, or they are wired differently at the physical level but how many people think beyond the face value and go an extra mile to understand the other person.


Over the years of my observation and practice in studying various houses for friends and family in India, USA and now Canada, I have seen Southwest direction of the house playing a very critical role for creating a successful relation in every aspect. Southwest direction is governed by ancestors as mentioned in vedic vastu scriptures, it is also the zone representing skills of an individual, stability in finances, health, relations and power to let go, overcome any situation in life and get back on track in a matured way of handling life situations. When Southwest direction in the house is balanced and well planned on the floor plan it acts as a store for good cosmic energy which is received from the Northeast direction in a balanced and pure form. When there is a toilet, kitchen or entrance in this southwest direction of the floor plan these positive attributes are missing leaving us with health issues, misunderstanding in relations, lack of clear communication, not able to over come incidents in life making the energy stagnant in the house.


Wholistic Living Space suggests that our living space plays a very vital role in this situation, for instance a person who belongs to fire element by nature is using fire related zone for his bedroom and work space, spending most of his time in that direction would create more of aggressive energy being the characteristic of the fire element. So instead of creating a balanced energy it will create an aggression in this energy field resulting in imbalanced and making the person short tempered, reactive in each situation, impulsive, misunderstanding situations, short sighted and so on. Understanding our own self and our living space our house, can help us further create a better and supportive space for us & our family members to support success and growth.


While redefining relationship main directions to consider are SOUTHWEST, SOUTHEAST AND NORTHWEST. These zones can be balanced with the help of natural elements, crystals, colors therapy and alternative healing ways without changing the structure of the house.


For specific question send me a message and I will be happy to help.

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